It will be the first time you go out with this person, you have many illusions but to make it a first date for the memory we leave you some tips to take into account.
Leaving for the first time with that person that takes away our sleep can make us feel anxious. However, it can get easier than it seems.
From choosing what to wear, the topics we will discuss, among other things may be hanging around your head but quiet here we leave some tips that will help you relax during your first date.
Although some friend has told you that being late is making you “want”, we do not recommend it. According to social psychologists, people tend to connect with those who feel closeness. Moreover, they affirmed that when one of the two is already in the meeting place he perceives that the appointment will go positively.
2. No to armed speeches
Do not force the topics, the more fluid the conversation is, the better. According to a Personaliy and Individual Differences publication, he said that all the planned phrases were a total failure in the first appointments, especially when they touch on the beauty or the other person’s physical issues.
3. Do not be afraid of the talk
If you are shy that you do not like to talk a lot, keep in mind that if you are on a first date it is because the person feels interested in you. Do not be afraid to speak and propose topics of conversation, it is more so you will know if they have chemistry or not. According to the research already mentioned above, the most successful topics to talk about with general culture, and not intimate topics especially when they are just getting to know each other.
4. Body language is equally important
If you are nervous your gestures are likely to be robotic or awkward, but the more natural you are, the more you will enjoy your company. If you really like the other person that your body says it. The study of the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, indicated that the best way to show yourself before the other is with slow movements, without exaggerating and without breaking the personal space.
5. Dessert for two
According to an investigation by Purdue University, he said that asking for sweet foods calls romantic and sensual thoughts. In which matter of time so that little by little they are getting closer. So we recommend you ask for a slice of chocolate cake, you know it’s an aphrodisiac.