Having a love relationship is not easy, it’s a roller coaster with ups and downs, it’s part of growing up and getting to know each other as a couple. Sometimes, we come to so many problems that it seems that the end is coming soon, especially because the romance is fading from small to small (sometimes a lot). If you trust your love and believe it has a remedy, today I will show you 15 tips that will make the flame of love come back on again.
1. RULE 5-3-1
If they always argue about going out to some and as they can not agree, they end up at home bored, it’s time to use this method. One of the two must propose 5 places, the other will choose 3 of those and in the end, the one who proposes ends up choosing the place. Thus, together they will have reached an agreement.
2. CORRECT WORDS AT THE RIGHT MOMENT
Saying a compliment after a fight can be a bit unreasonable. Better use to praise your partner in the morning (when they wake up), tell him something nice about his hair or his beard, or how he dressed before leaving (remember, something positive).
3. GIVE YOUR HAND
When was the last time you held hands with love, not out of habit? Do not forget that you joined him or her, do not leave those little details, believe it or not, connect them as a couple.
4. LEAVE LOVE NOTES
It’s a bit corny, but it will steal a smile from both of you. Leave a note in your mirror, wallet, book, cell phone, it will cause a smile. Say a compliment, something nice like: I still remember the first day you smiled at me, that day my life changed. Come on, you can relive that flame!
5. LEARN TO LISTEN
The strongest arguments cause both to raise their voices. Have you tried to shut up and listen? Sometimes it is better for the other person to vent everything they feel and then you can give way to expressing your feelings.
6. EXPLORE THE WHOLE BODY
The moment of intimacy should never become a routine. Leave behind the common and try new positions, games, costumes. The bed is the perfect place to let your imagination fly.
7. ADMIT YOUR ERRORS
Romanticism is lost because both have begun to highlight the mistakes of the other, rather than their own. Remember that being human is wrong, so do not let a discussion ends up ruining something so beautiful that they both have.
8. BYE BYE JEALOUSY
You have to start trusting your partner. Being jealous is normal, but do not start questioning each call, text or output. It is true that together they are one, but remember that love is trust, but above all freedom to love with the security that your novix will be for you.
9. DEMONSTRATE ITS AFFECT IN PUBLIC
What does it matter that they are accused of being crazy, cheesy or teenagers, loving is freedom, do not forget! People do not feed your love, your actions, laughter experiences, yes;)
10. PLANE DATING
Play to interpret when they first met. Plan appointments, see yourself in a park, get excited with a sms. If you have a little more budget, be surprised and invest in an unforgettable evening.
11. SHARE A NEW YEAR
Invest in taking cooking classes, pastry, dance, gym. The idea is to share time together and discover new qualities. Remember that the secret to love is to have a person who always surprises you (positively).
12. DO NOT ATTEMPT TO CHANGE YOUR COUPLE
There are certain manners that you can adjust, but remember that your essence should not be lost, because even if you do not believe it, you will end up falling out of love, because it is not the same person you met.
13. ASKING SUBTLE QUESTIONS TO SOLVE PROBLEMS
What if we stop saying our opinion and start to propose solutions. Try to resolve the conflict, you will see that your partner will admire you for that and begin to imitate your behavior.
14. USE THE WORDS ‘PLEASE, FORGIVE AND THANKS’
Sometimes, custom causes us to lose certain models. The so-called ‘magic words’ are very useful, and the best thing is that it strengthens your respect for your partner.
15. NOTHING TO TALK ABOUT ‘EX’
Sure so many fights made you think: “with my ex did not happen this”, well away those ideas from your head. Be thankful that ‘these things’ did not happen with your current partner, because if not, it would be a sign that you will repeat the dish.