It may look like Prince Charming himself, but in the end, it is those little details that determine how good a boyfriend material is. We regret to tell you that not everyone is made to be that protective and affectionate boyfriend that everyone wants, but seeing the signs depends on you. Do not let love blind you and pay attention to those things that could prevent you from ending up with a broken heart.
# 1 LIKE IN THE MIDDLE AGES
It keeps you totally in the dark about your life, whether past or present. If a) He refuses to introduce himself to his friends or family b) He gets defensive when you want to talk about his past or c) He tells you that it is better to keep your relationship secret because “it’s more exciting”, then it’s time to put a until here and analyze the facts, because it may not have the best reasons.
# 2 NEITHER YOUR FAMILY NOR FRIENDS
We know that in the eyes of a father, no boy is good enough no matter how close he is to winning the Nobel Peace Prize, but if everyone around him perceives it in a negative way, it is time to reflect. Do not block the comments of others completely, they may be seeing things in a much more objective way than you. Ask them what they do not like and try to change your perspective to see if they are correct or not.
# 3 ONLY FOR HIM
One thing is that you love and want to spend all your time with you … and another that does not leave you or turn around. Jealousy may be flattering but there are limits and if you put yourself in a bad attitude even for your family meals, it may be a sign of problems in the future.
# 4 YOUR OTHER ME
A good couple is one who loves you for who you are, not for who you can be. If you realize that with him you have to be another person to please him, then let us tell you that this relationship is bound to fail. Remember that first of all you are first and the key to a good relationship is that you feel confident of being yourself.
# 5 OPPOSITE POLES
Maybe it’s not a bad boy, but the correct timing is everything. If they are in different channels (example: You want children, he wants them to be friends), it is very likely that they will not get anywhere. Do not try to change it and get used to the idea that continuing with it can turn into a bitter drink.
# 6 EX Talks?
Your past relationships can tell you a lot: if he talks bad about them, if he tells you why they ended, if he was ever unfaithful, etc. Pay attention to these details, as they may be (to some extent) a glimpse into your future. If you still carry with them, beware! Make sure there are no hidden feelings on your part.
# 7 TOTAL INDIFFERENCE
At first it seemed a challenge to conquer that boy with his apparent lack of interest, but if after a while he continues to show indifference, we regret to tell you that he is not making the difficult, he is simply “hanging out”. Make sure that the person you are really interested in and above all, show it!
# 8 YOUR INSTINCT TELLS YOU
Trust those hunches; The first impression may not be the correct one, but if you continue with this insecurity when leaving, it is better to leave it for peace. You do not have to be with a person who makes you feel distrust or treats you badly, on the contrary!