If you want to have a happy and lasting relationship, we teach you a few tips so you can achieve it.
Nobody has the secret to live a permanent happy relationship, it is impossible, you just have to look at your character and that of your partner to know that, at any moment, the Third World War may break out (ok maybe that was exaggerated). You have the privilege of loving and having at your side a person who shares the same feelings, but now it is time to work and together to achieve a happy relationship, with ups and downs, but without losing the essence of love.
Today we bring you 12 simple tips to make you and your partner happier. The illustrations are by the artist Astkhik Rakimova.
BE YOURSELF, BE SINCERE
It is very important to be honest. Do not be afraid to reveal your feelings to your partner, he is the closest person you have. If something worries you or you need it, tell it. Nobody knows how to read your thoughts, and the first step to solving a problem is to talk about it.
Encourage a positive attitude towards life and do not let your partner feel discouraged. Be optimistic, because whatever happens, you have each other. You can always joke about problems with your partner, laugh together, draw conclusions and move on!
BE ATTENTIVE, SUPPORT YOUR COUPLE
We all live failures that affect our mood and self-esteem. Make your partner feel your support and show that you understand. It is very easy and your partner will feel much better.
Also pay attention to the wishes and needs of your partner. You must accept that it is not your reflection or your property. Treat your wishes, different from yours, with due understanding.
DEMONSTRATE WHAT YOU FEEL WITHOUT FEAR
It is very important to remind your partner how much you admire everything he does for you. Thanks even for the smallest gestures. Do not take everything good that happens between the two as something natural, tell your soulmate how much you value it.
Show your feelings Do not be ashamed to give him love and affection because it is very necessary to create a strong and deep bond between the two. Make your partner feel how special it is for you.
RESPECT THE PERSONAL SPACE OF THE OTHER
Two people can not and should not be together 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Do not oppose the hobbies of your loved one and do not give up your hobbies either. You fell in love with your partner as he is, with all his habits and hobbies. You do not have to sacrifice each other’s interests in the name of a strong relationship. Nobody will value it.
REMEMBER THE IMPORTANCE OF RESPECT
Respect creates a strong bond and trust in the couple. Do not forget the importance of respect even when there is an argument. The debates are often accompanied by mutual reproaches. Be careful with your words. Anger will go away but you will not be able to undo your offenses. No matter how many times you do not ask for forgiveness after an argument, the hurtful words will leave a deep scar on the soul of your loved one.
DO NOT LET THE JEALOUSIES CONSUME YOUR RELATIONSHIP
Try not to feel jealousy: with this you accept your fear of being abandoned, your complexes and the lack of confidence in yourself. Do not accuse or torment your partner with your jealousy, you hurt him.
What to do if your partner watches over you? Try to calm her down, show her how much you love her, let her see how absurd her fears are.
ACCEPT YOUR PARTNER AS IS
Do not want to change your loved one, accept their peculiarities and habits because these details make it unique. Do not be offended with your partner because of their customs. And if you ever have a bad habit and the change would benefit you, there are always ways to talk about it calmly and correct some things.
CREATE MEMORIES OF A COUPLE
There is nothing that unites you more to your partner than experiences and memories. The trips, dance classes, diving, participation in competitions … do what you find fascinating and fun together with your partner. Fill your life with something colorful. Because it is unlikely that watching TV together will leave an indelible mark on your memory.
DO NOT STOP SURPRISING IT (A)
Amaze your partner with nice details. Try to bring something new to your relationship more often. The surprises, love notes, details, small parties without reason; cheer up your partner, create a romantic story, season your daily life with love.
Spend time with your partner
Do not get distracted when you spend time with your partner. Work and daily worries take away too much time; so when you’re with your loved one turn off the TV, leave your mobile phone aside and enjoy the company of your partner.
DREAM WITH YOUR COUPLE
Think of some goals you have in common with your partner. What is it that you and your loved one would like to achieve within 5, 10 or 20 years? Do not propose goals based on common notions about happiness and success. Concentrate on what makes you and your partner truly happy.